PARENTING PLAN DESIGN, Consulting, & mediation

Keeps the focus on the kids.


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You are worried about your kids, the impact of divorce, and how to come up with an agreement with your co-parent.

Divorce is not a one time event, it is a lifelong experience when children are involved. Everyone in the family feels the impact, whether infants, toddlers, elementary age kids, teenagers, or young adults. There is no perfect age, nor a perfect time.

The impact of divorce on you and your children does not simply end with a final settlement. Thus, there is nothing more important than keeping the needs of your children at the center of any divorce decisions.

Together, we will focus on child-centered choices that promote greater adjustment and overall well-being for your family. We will work towards restructuring your family and creating a new positive path forward. Choices about how you will work together with your co-parent will mean everything to your kids, both today and in the future.

Mediation allows you to begin working together with your co-parent in a healthy, amicable way. Mediation avoids the unnecessary tension and stressors that may come with contentious litigation. With my expertise, you can develop a new business-like relationship as parenting partners and can build a parenting plan that best meets the needs of your family.

Your children’s future means everything.

Our work together will be child-centered, creative, and compassionately focused on your children’s unique needs.

Whether you are just starting the process or have reached an impasse with your co-parent, I’m here to help.

Our goals are to keep the children at the center of all discussions and to stay out of the courtroom. Litigation often gets ugly quickly, costs a significant amount of money, and tends to exacerbate hurt feelings, tension, and animosity. Sometimes, one party is unwilling to come to the table and you may not have a choice. Other times, there are ongoing family abuse concerns that prohibit mediation.

If possible, mediation is the best path forward in resolving the issues of your divorce. When there are children involved, both financial and parenting time issues need to be determined in reaching your divorce agreement.

Given that I have extensive personal and professional experience in child development, needs of children at different ages and stages, and co-parenting dynamics, I am uniquely qualified to help you create the best plan to meet the needs of your family.

Parenting plans address time sharing schedules as well as important issues and decisions concerning your children’s health, education, and activities. Together, we will focus on understanding the needs of your children and how you both envision moving forward in restructuring your family.

Parenting Plan Design

Parenting plan design and consulting provides individual support to create the building blocks of a parenting plan or modifications of an existing plan. Perhaps your former partner is unwilling to participate in joint mediation, you are dealing with a high-conflict and/or abusive ex, or you need expert guidance to develop your personalized parenting plan proposal.

What we will work on together:

  • Understanding the developmental stages and needs of your children

  • Creating the building blocks of a personalized parenting plan

  • Exploring different time sharing schedules

  • Addressing holiday and vacation schedules

  • The do’s and don’t of parenting plans

  • Items that are especially important to include now to avoid conflict later

  • Determining the level of detail needed

  • Tools for strategic communication

  • Reviewing your children’s educational needs

  • Terms to address medical and mental health needs

  • Terms to address extracurricular activities

  • Terms to address what to do if one party is noncompliant

  • Strategies to advocate for your parenting plan proposal

  • Preparing for custody and best interests evaluations

  • Understanding the family court process

  • Exploring parallel parenting vs co-parenting

  • Practicing acceptance for what you can and can not control

What we will work on in mediation:

  • Focusing on your children’s needs at different ages and stages

  • Creating the building blocks of your parenting plan

  • Exploring time-sharing schedules

  • Addressing holiday and vacation schedules

  • Developing terms that are best for your children

  • Determining the level of detail needed

  • Including terms to meet your children’s health and educational needs

  • Planning for extra-curricular activities and special events

  • Building effective communication strategies for co-parenting

  • Learning tools to limit conflict

  • Reviewing parallel vs co-parenting

  • Practicing acceptance for what you can and can not control

  • Redefining the future of your family

The choices you make today, will make a difference in your children’s future.

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